Are you always blaming yourself for not feeling fulfilled? It’s a struggle to build the life you envision, but maybe you’re getting in your own way. Don’t believe you’re unworthy of obtaining what you desire just because you don’t have it right now. You DO deserve to have everything you want in your life — here’s why you do and how to get it.
It’s easy to fall into the mental trap of telling yourself you don’t deserve anything good. That deep-rooted notion within you doesn’t need to hold you back forever. It’s possible to believe you’re worthy of being happy, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. This post will show you exactly why you deserve wonderful things in your life and how to make them a reality.
You Deserve to Have Everything You Desire. See How.
You Don’t Deserve to Live in Fear
How many times has fear stopped you in your tracks? Maybe you turned down a few employers that seemed promising during your last job hunt. Perhaps you saw someone attractive and decided not to talk to them. Fear kills motivation.
No one deserves to live petrified of their potential future. It’s not only uncomfortable or undesirable — giving into fear prevents you from growing. You can’t make meaningful choices when you’re hung up on everything negative that might happen. Don’t put your life on hold because you’re afraid.
You Don’t Deserve to Suffer (Even If You Think You Do)
Everyone has hardships in their life. Sometimes bad things happen to good people. Maybe those rough spots were caused by the choices you made. Some rainy days are more painful than others, but that pain doesn’t need to be there all the time.
You may not even realize your subconscious desire to suffer. How often do you turn down a night with your friends or treating yourself to your favorite ice cream? Did you feel uneasy celebrating your last birthday? Anguishing over activities you enjoy is a tell-tale sign you don’t believe you’re worthy of enjoying life.
You don’t always have to suffer because of your past. Suffering is transitory, not a defining mark on your life. Don’t allow the scars of your past to prevent you from living a fulfilling life.
Define Exactly What’s Holding You Back
The first step to fixing a problem is admitting that there is a problem. Then, you’ll need to figure out exactly what’s wrong. Grab a pen and paper and start writing down what’s keeping you from being happy.
Start with this list and see if any of these situations apply to you:
- Fear of rejection.
- Unworthy of love or admiration.
- Not forgiving yourself for a mistake.
- Attempting to live up to unreachable standards.
Can you relate? It’s time to make a change.
Feeling Good Isn’t Just a Privilege, Its Required to Grow
Changing your life for the better is impossible when you don’t feel worthy of being happy. That’s why it’s so important to identify precisely what makes you feel inadequate. Only then can you remedy those faulty perceptions.
Create realistic goals to achieve a sense of accomplishment. Forgive yourself for making mistakes like everyone else. Enjoy yourself for who you are right now instead of what you “should be” 10 years from now. You’ll start feeling more relieved, relaxed, and optimistic as you process and remove the negativity from your life.
There’s nothing wrong with desiring contentment and success from your life. You deserve the chance to be happy. The way you perceive your life could be your most significant setback. Change your outlook, and you can get what you want.
~Here’s to Your Success